I think a fundamental question faced
by men in the pursuit of attracting women is: Can attracting women be learned? Is
it a result of genetics of having been
gifted with prominent cheekbones, lean muscularity or a sizable organ? Is it
about having a naturally outgoing personality, charisma, and sharp wit? Or
perhaps possession of influence and personal power?
As complex as women are, there is no
one answer to explain their preferences. Some schools of thought say that women
value financial security more. Others say that personality, masculinity, sense
of humor, or any of a variety of different criteria matters most.
And so, the questions must of
necessity be: Is it possible to attract women, and if so, can any man do it? And
will it work with ANY woman specifically? Yes, in the sense that it is possible
to attract the kind of women that you like, and who would like you in return,
but whom you need to actively attract to you. This requires you to learn the
techniques for attracting women, and actively engaging in the pursuit. Attracting
women involves the application of learned skills in a consistent and persistent
fashion. You simply have to keep approaching women.
When you play the numbers, however,
remember that your chances of winning can be enhanced by other things besides
the application of the techniques. Some of your strengths can be emphasized,
and your weaknesses downplayed. If you persist, you WILL succeed in attracting
women.
However, it is not possible to
attract all women, or just any specific one. If there were a specific woman
that you wanted to attract, but who is simply not interested or attracted to
you, no skill or technique or persistence is guaranteed to work. History is
replete with stories of unrequited love
of men who thought that they can make a woman want them. If they had
simply tried to attract other women instead, and kept persisting, they would
have been met with success.
So, in sum, yes, attracting women
can be learned. Will it always work?
